"Married November 23, 1929 (if my memory serves me right)
my father saw my mother at the farm next door. He waited all day for her
to go down to the pond for water. He grabbed a bucket and went down to the
pond for water too. They talked for a couple of hours. They were both
smitten. He told her he was leaving for Arizona to work in the copper
mines for a year. And that when he got back he intended
to marry her. A year later mother was sitting on the front porch with her
grandmother and grandfather when dad drove up in a blue roadster, slid to
a stop in the front yard, walked up picked her up from the chair she was
in, put her in the car, took into town and married her.
They
were married 49 years when John died. Ruby lived another 20 years and
never could conceive of considering another man in her life. They were
married for eternity from the first I do. They were the most
wonderful parents, grandparents, great grandparents, and friends to
everybody."
Video Comments:
"You did a marvelous,
loving job of putting this video together! I cried! For my own
sweet memories of those waiting "knee deep in water". and reminded
me of how thankful I am for those standing right here now! Love.
It's so powerful." Linda Orsak
"Thank you so much Beth--Of course you know the memories this brings up
for me. So beautifully done." Janis Kennemar
"I remember the night
Mimi died. We were all sitting around her bed in the hospital
telling stories, laughing, all the while knowing she would soon be with
the Lord and with Papa. We were so happy for her! You did a
great job, Beth." Joan
My grandmother Ruby
(Mimi to me) was one of the most kindhearted, spiritual, understanding &
loving women I've ever known.
Mimi was on her deathbed
when I wrote this song. I've always felt it was a message from my
grandfather, John (Papa), to let Mimi know he was waiting for her on the
other side. Not only waiting but wading out into the river to meet her
as she crossed over. I believe, just as she did, that we're reunited
with our loved ones when God takes us home.
She wasn't able to say,
but my hope is hearing this song gave her comfort and reassurance.
Not that she really needed
it, I'm sure. For as long as I can remember, she spent her entire
life in service to the Lord. She loved and trusted Him so. "An
old Bible on the edge of the bed, tattered and torn from being read......"
I found this Scripture
she had written out in a book she gave me in 1972. "Lovingkindness
is better than life." Psalm 63:3 She lived this
truth.
Behold, I tell you a
mystery; we shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed - in a
moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet
will sound, and the dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall all be
changed. I
Corinthians 15: 51 & 52
Ruby
and John
words & music by Beth Williams
Ruby
sits on the edge of the bed,
wearing old brown shoes & a scarf on her head
had her suitcase packed for nigh on 18 years
in her favorite cotton dress, she wants to look her best
when she steps back from this black veil of tears
Ruby's
ready to fly over the rainbow...
Ruby's ready to fly peacefully
over the rainbow, cross the river into the arms of john
standing knee-deep in water, wading patiently
seems
like only yesterday
she gave her young heart away
to the farm boy she met out on hornbeck pond
always said she knew right then
walkin' down the road with him
she would someday marry that boy john
Ruby's
ready to fly over the rainbow...
Ruby's ready to fly peacefully
over the rainbow, cross the river into the arms of john
standing knee-deep in water , wading patiently
through
forty nine sweet years they saw love shine
soon it will be John & Ruby for all time
an old
Bible on the edge of the bed,
tattered & torn from being read
night after night alone there in her room
through an open window a cold wind blows ...
a train whistle comes and goes
and leaves just the smell of ruby's sweet perfume
Rubys ready to fly over the rainbow...
Rubys ready to fly peacefully
over the rainbow, cross the river into the arms of john
standing knee deep in water, wading patiently
he's standing knee deep in water wading patiently
he's standing knee deep in water waiting patiently